Attraction to Love or Never

Can heart be dictated? Love cannot develop without strong
attraction between two people. It is not just about being physical but attraction
that cannot be explained. Maybe attraction comes from the meeting of the minds
or each has strong desire for some values which so happened are present to
both. Attraction just like love itself cannot be fathomed easily. Each might
have seen the best of Asian art in each other’s eye.

But how about love without no foundation at all? How about
for a given period of time, there is still no attraction or liking to each
other, at least, is taking place? Will love develop? Friendship may begin to
but friendship is different when two people fall in love. It may be possible
though but love may take a while to see how each is meant for the other. This why we keep wondering as to how pre-arranged marriage work because in some Asian cultures, this still exists.

There are requirements that a person needs to meet before he or she can be a
good match to the other one. It is just like an exchange of artworks for sale
between families. And we ask, where is the love? However, we still believe in
the long run that love begets love. This one is tried and tested over time. The
caveat is there should be at least one in the couple who is madly in love with
the other one. There is no other thing to offer for love but love itself. This,
for the other one to respond, may take sometime. But loving without expecting
anything in return is a feat that will surely reap rewards. Such love, at
times, may mean to the extent about loving without self-respect. It may not be
orchestrated to manipulate emotion but reactions to emotion naturally flow with
the bearer unconscious of it. May love
not give up. However, without any of the two persons being attracted or being
in love to the other, love may find it hard to find its way because there is no
heart where it can at least settle to take its rest when things become too
exhausting and demanding.

Love is wonderful if only it will be felt by two people with
sincerity to handle it well. However, it is love that dictates our moves.
Before we know it, there is already a story that is flowing without us being
even aware of it. And as per how and
when it will develop for two people who see no love to each other can really be
a big question like asking an abstract wall painting to speak up what meaning
it wants to convey.