The best part of loving is falling in love which is not easy to sustain at all. A couple may feel the intensity of falling in love during courtship. There is mixed emotion of excitement during this period. Along with this feeling is the thrill of romance—and yes, a prelude to passion. But then, count a few months more of intimacy and being in love to the nth level drops down to zero. And you see all wall paintings as dull and all music as flat as how you are feeling.
And yes, they say that there are stages. There are degrees
of loving, or better yet use the word, “levels”, in this case. But then, no
matter what level that is, everything seemed to die down after falling in love
becomes falling out of love. The thrill
of romance becomes stronger the time falling in love fades away. Love becomes
more mature and deep. That is exactly how old folks and the experienced say.
But then, what is togetherness without being head over heels in love with
someone you are with? Isn’t it but right to fall madly in love everyday with
your partner until you grow old? Otherwise, what is love if it means just
company? It is, indeed, waste of time to be with someone who is not in love
with you and whom you think he is the least person to love. It is like looking through artworks for sale
to be happy and you bumped and you fell for something that will just stress you
out for years. The best part in life is to love truly, madly, and deeply and
everything else is just an add-on. Yes,
as we mature we realize that there is something that life will miss if we do
not follow our hearts. In this case, we declare the freedom to love at all
cost. Being stuck with someone who doesn’t love you and whom you do not love at
all is sickening. This applies to people who are with you but who always seem
to go against you or totally against you. As they say, life is too short.
The
wise are right. Leave them or let them go. You do not need stress in your life
when you can just live life to the fullest and loving some people who deserve
your love and attention. Yes, it has to be that way. Give the people the
freedom to love, to hold on, to move on and to let go. The sad part is,
morality may be at stake. But then, after you held on too much to values and
you still end up realizing that the sacrifice and commitment to a relationship
is not worth it, then you know very well then you already have God’s blessing
to love and be loved again, and this time with the one He wants for you. And
truly, you are a perfect couple that all paint artists want to be a subject to
their wall paintings.
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