Fall for just little fun

Why opt to have a crush than going to the extent of falling in love? First off, it is fun. It is exciting and its expression can be just light like liking someone or just simply adoring him for a certain qualification that he has enough to make you smile. Falling in love, on the other hand, is too much to handle. The feeling is extremes. It is pain and grief. Why fall for da Vinci’s original oil painting when other masterpieces from emerging artists can make you feel light and bubbly.

Having a crush is childish. You like the eyes. You like the smile and when such smile becomes twisted, you move on to other one with a better one. However, every adult knows that crush leads to attraction. You are lucky enough if your crush will not respond to you but when he does, chances are attraction gets stronger until it leads to falling in love. And if you are not ready, you might shy away from true love and break free. Loving is not easy.  The more it gets deeper, the more it becomes painful until such pain becomes unbearable already. It is either you run from it or submerge yourself to it because once you get immune to pain, it only means that the person you once loved is not your love anymore. As they say, time to make yourself open again to new friendships, at least. And somehow, you know that it will again begin with having crushes and the cycle starts from there. But a person who has enough of strong self-control can just settle to having crushes than opt for falling in love over and over again. The self-control required needs to be much stronger than when you want to stop yourself from maxing out your plastics because you all want the artworks for sale online yours.

Who doesn’t want a brilliant original oil painting when if such art is the most expensive? But then once it becomes damaged by accident, the loss could be tremendous. And if you think you are not ready yet again to undergo a roller coaster ride of emotions that this situation will bring you, then better have plenty of crafts for the meantime.