Friends and Falling in Love

Friends! What makes life exciting with them is that you are one heaven sure that even in madness, they are with you. They are there to tap you when things are getting overboard but they won’t just criticize.  As long as they remain as friends, they are like Asian art for keepsake, so rare but of brilliant quality. They are the same ones that you can count on that whatever floats your boat, they’d just be on a ride.

They are not the ones who will subject you to emotional torture because the moment they do, you know very well that it is time to part ways. It is a clue that you both need to move on and let go.  This is why no friends are permanent. They come and go. But then, the moment with them is precious. Something you do not want to forget. It is happiness without judgment. But then of course, it becomes different when they are already being used against you, then you know a friend is someone who perhaps is just an acquaintance or just a company for a time being. The key is not to expect much because as people point to thousands as their friends, only a couple or add some more are real ones.  It is like browsing for thousands of paintings online and you only see a few of original oil paintings. Despite such fact, people are always in search for a true friend—someone they can trust and someone who will last. And as they say, true friendship between a woman and a man cannot be real. It makes sense because true friendship can even go beyond the emotional attachment two lovers have for each other which means with such over flowing of emotion, we can say that there is already attraction going on between the two.

A man who is emotionally attached to his girl-friend is in one way or another has romantic feelings for her. Standards-wise, she may not be the girl of her dreams. She is not her Asian art that looks exotic and brilliant. He could be too proud to just stoop down, but he can be emotionally attached already and only him knows how much he cares and loves this person whom he calls as his friend. This happens most of the time while woman treats a man-friend a real friend because hypocrisy of what she feels is something she cannot endure. The guy would feel somehow that the woman whom she thinks is just a friend is already in love with him.